When it comes to talking to the opposite sex, do you feel shy, awkward, or incompetent?
We all occasionally get nervous when trying to spark a conversation with someone new, but if you feel you are excessively shy to the point it is limiting you when it comes to potential relationships, try and employ these tips to help you be a more smooth and confident conversationalist.
Ask questions. Open-ended questions that require more elaboration than a yes or no answer are a great way to start the conversation or to keep it going. Not only does it take the pressure off of you, but it lets the other person know you want to get to know them better.
Keep it simple. You don’t need a pick up line. A simple ‘How are you?’ will get the ball rolling nicely. Most people will pick up the converational give and take at that point.
Don’t overshare. Sometimes when we are nervous we will overcompensate by babbling. Don’t feel like you have to fill the silence with pointless chaff, and avoid sharing personal information right away.
4. Keep it light and fun. Avoid potential hot button topics like religion and politics. Save the controversy for friends.
5. Get practice. Phone sex chat is a great place to practice talking to new people. Like anything else, the more you do it, the more confident and capable you will become. Since phone sex chat is over the phone, it will be easier to get started. The anonymity is liberating too. Smile when you talk, the other person can hear your smile! Phone sex chat is full of friendly fun loving singles and couples looking for spicy adult phone fun. It’s free to try and ladies always chat free so there’s never a shortage of people on the line. Best of all, everyone on phone sex chat is local to your area so if you really hit it off you can meet for a date.
Shake that shy awkward feeling and have some fun while building your confidence and perfecting your pick up skills at phone sex chat today! Happy Chatting!